That uncertainty makes a lot of sense. Reconnecting can stir up a mix of emotions—hope, hesitation, even fear of rejection or disappointment. It’s okay to not be sure. Sometimes the question isn’t just “Should I reach out?” but “Will this person still fit into the life I’m living now?”
Here are a few gentle questions you might reflect on to help guide you:
🌱 Questions to Consider
- Why do I want to reconnect? Is it nostalgia, loneliness, curiosity, or something deeper?
- Has this person changed—or have I—in ways that might make reconnection hard or healing?
- Would reaching out feel like closure, renewal, or just opening old wounds?
- Is there peace in letting go, or is there something unfinished that needs tending?
You don’t have to decide right away. Sometimes writing about it—privately or in a blog—can help you process. If you’d like, I can help you draft a reflection or even a letter you don’t have to send. Just something to get your thoughts out.
Would that feel helpful right now? Or would you rather explore ways to build new connections that align with who you are today?
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