That verse—“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly” (Proverbs 18:24)—is such a gentle reminder that friendship begins with being the kind of person we’d want to be friends with. But what does that look like in real life, especially when you're in a new or quieter season?
Here’s a thoughtful breakdown of how to be friendly, especially from a faith-rooted and authentic perspective:
🌷 How to Be Friendly (and Still Be Yourself)
1. Be Present
Friendliness starts with showing up—emotionally, spiritually, and sometimes physically. Make eye contact. Smile. Ask how someone’s really doing. Being present says, “I see you.”
2. Practice Kind Curiosity
Ask questions that go beyond small talk. “What’s something that’s bringing you joy lately?” or “How did you get into that hobby?” People feel valued when we show genuine interest.
3. Offer Encouragement
A kind word can go a long way. Compliment someone’s effort, style, or spirit. Share a verse or thought that uplifted you. Encouragement is a form of spiritual hospitality.
4. Be Vulnerable (Gently)
You don’t have to spill everything, but sharing a little about your own journey—your faith, your struggles, your joys—can invite deeper connection. It says, “You’re safe to be real here.”
5. Create Space
Sometimes being friendly means making room—for someone to speak, to feel, to belong. Whether it’s inviting someone into a conversation or simply listening well, space is a gift.
6. Let Go of Perfection
You don’t have to be bubbly or extroverted to be friendly. Just be warm, open, and kind in your own way. Authenticity is magnetic.
Being friendly isn’t about being liked—it’s about being loving. And love, especially the kind rooted in Christ, is always invitational. It says, “You matter. You’re welcome here.”
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