Mom Life, Faith, & Design: 09/18/25

Thursday, September 18, 2025

That verse—“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly” (Proverbs 18:24)—is such a gentle reminder that friendship begins with being the kind of person we’d want to be friends with. But what does that look like in real life, especially when you're in a new or quieter season?

Here’s a thoughtful breakdown of how to be friendly, especially from a faith-rooted and authentic perspective:

🌷 How to Be Friendly (and Still Be Yourself)

1. Be Present

Friendliness starts with showing up—emotionally, spiritually, and sometimes physically. Make eye contact. Smile. Ask how someone’s really doing. Being present says, “I see you.”

2. Practice Kind Curiosity

Ask questions that go beyond small talk. “What’s something that’s bringing you joy lately?” or “How did you get into that hobby?” People feel valued when we show genuine interest.

3. Offer Encouragement

A kind word can go a long way. Compliment someone’s effort, style, or spirit. Share a verse or thought that uplifted you. Encouragement is a form of spiritual hospitality.

4. Be Vulnerable (Gently)

You don’t have to spill everything, but sharing a little about your own journey—your faith, your struggles, your joys—can invite deeper connection. It says, “You’re safe to be real here.”

5. Create Space

Sometimes being friendly means making room—for someone to speak, to feel, to belong. Whether it’s inviting someone into a conversation or simply listening well, space is a gift.

6. Let Go of Perfection

You don’t have to be bubbly or extroverted to be friendly. Just be warm, open, and kind in your own way. Authenticity is magnetic.

Being friendly isn’t about being liked—it’s about being loving. And love, especially the kind rooted in Christ, is always invitational. It says, “You matter. You’re welcome here.”

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New friends? (Thinking face emoji)... hmm...

Of course! Here's a gentle, faith- and life-aware blog-style post on how to make new friends, written with your voice and values in mind:

🌸 Making New Friends in a New Season of Life

Friendship in adulthood feels different. It’s not like school, where connection was built into the day. Now, it takes intention. Vulnerability. A little courage. And sometimes, a lot of prayer.

After seasons of change—graduation, motherhood, faith journeys—it’s easy to feel like friendships have faded into the background. But that doesn’t mean new ones can’t bloom.

Here’s what I’m learning about making new friends:

1. Start with Shared Spaces

Look for places where hearts gather—faith communities, creative groups, parenting circles, or even online spaces that reflect your passions. Whether it’s a Bible study, a local art class, or a nature walk group, shared interests create natural bridges.

2. Be Open, Not Perfect

You don’t have to have it all together. In fact, real connection often begins when we let our guard down. A simple “I’ve been feeling a little lonely lately” can open the door to a deeper conversation than small talk ever could.

3. Reach Out First

It’s okay to be the one who initiates. Send a message. Invite someone for coffee. Comment on a post. Sometimes people are just waiting for someone to make the first move.

4. Let Faith Lead

Pray for the right people to come into your life. Ask God to guide your heart toward those who will uplift, challenge, and walk with you. Friendship is a gift, and He knows exactly who you need.

5. Be Patient

Not every connection will turn into a deep friendship—and that’s okay. Some people are meant for a moment, others for a lifetime. Trust the timing.

Friendship isn’t just about finding someone to talk to—it’s about finding someone who sees you. And in this season, as you grow, create, and walk in faith, the right friendships will find their way to you.

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Hmm ... (Insert thinking face emoji here)

That’s a beautifully honest thought, Lauralee—“Reconciling the past and present is peculiar.” It really is. There’s something almost surreal about looking back at who we were, the people we knew, the dreams we held—and then trying to make sense of how it all fits into who we are now.

Here’s a reflection inspired by that idea:

🕊 Reconciling the Past and Present

There’s a peculiar tension in the space between who I was and who I’ve become.

The past holds pieces of me—friends, places, moments—that shaped my heart. Some of those pieces feel warm and familiar, others distant and strange. I look back and wonder: Was that really me? And yet, I know it was.

The present is quieter. More intentional. Filled with new roles, deeper faith, and a different rhythm. I’ve grown. I’ve let go. I’ve held on. But sometimes, the echoes of the past call out—not to pull me backward, but to remind me of the journey.

Reconciling the past and present isn’t about choosing one over the other. It’s about weaving them together. Honoring the memories without being bound by them. Letting the lessons live, while allowing myself to evolve.

It’s peculiar, yes. But it’s also sacred.

Because in this tension, I find grace.

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heartfelt reflection on reconnecting

Here’s a heartfelt reflection on reconnecting—something many of us wrestle with quietly:

🌿 A Reflection on Reconnecting

There’s a quiet ache that comes with remembering people who once felt like home. Friends from school, from seasons of life that felt simpler or more vibrant. We shared laughter, secrets, dreams—and then, life happened. Graduation, moves, motherhood, faith journeys. The threads loosened, and the closeness faded.

Now, the idea of reconnecting feels tender. Not quite a longing, not quite a fear—just a question: Is it right?

Reconnecting isn’t always about picking up where we left off. Sometimes it’s about honoring what was, and gently exploring what could be. It’s about asking: Do we still speak the same language of the heart? Have we grown in ways that complement or conflict?

There’s no shame in drifting. People change. Priorities shift. But there’s also no harm in reaching out with grace. A simple message. A memory shared. A “Hey, I was thinking about you.”

And if the door doesn’t open again, that’s okay. You tried. You honored the past. You made space for healing.

But sometimes, that door does open. And what walks through isn’t the same friendship—it’s something new. Something shaped by time, faith, and growth.

Reconnection isn’t about going back. It’s about seeing if there’s a way forward.

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"Reconnect" Yea or Nay?

That uncertainty makes a lot of sense. Reconnecting can stir up a mix of emotions—hope, hesitation, even fear of rejection or disappointment. It’s okay to not be sure. Sometimes the question isn’t just “Should I reach out?” but “Will this person still fit into the life I’m living now?”

Here are a few gentle questions you might reflect on to help guide you:

🌱 Questions to Consider

Why do I want to reconnect? Is it nostalgia, loneliness, curiosity, or something deeper?
Has this person changed—or have I—in ways that might make reconnection hard or healing?
Would reaching out feel like closure, renewal, or just opening old wounds?
Is there peace in letting go, or is there something unfinished that needs tending?

You don’t have to decide right away. Sometimes writing about it—privately or in a blog—can help you process. If you’d like, I can help you draft a reflection or even a letter you don’t have to send. Just something to get your thoughts out.

Would that feel helpful right now? Or would you rather explore ways to build new connections that align with who you are today?

No friends

I'm really sorry you're feeling that way, Lauralee. Not having close friends around can feel isolating, especially when you’re someone who values deep connection and creativity. You're not alone in this—many people go through seasons where friendships fade or feel distant, especially after big life transitions like graduation, motherhood, or shifts in faith and priorities.

Here’s something gentle to consider:

🌼 Friendship Can Be Reborn

Sometimes, new friendships come from unexpected places—through shared interests, faith communities, creative projects, or even online spaces. You have such a rich blend of passions (art, design, writing, nature, faith)—those are beautiful bridges to connection.

Would you be open to exploring ways to build new friendships that align with where you are now in life? I can help you:

Find local or online communities based on your interests
Draft a blog post or journal entry reflecting on this season
Create affirmations or prayers for connection and healing
Explore ways to reconnect with old friends if that feels right

And if you just want to talk or reflect, I’m here for that too. 💛 What’s been the hardest part of this for you lately?

Friends...

And there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly:

Absolutely! Friendship is such a rich and meaningful topic—whether you're thinking about how to nurture it, understand it, or reflect on it. Here's a quick overview of some key aspects of friendship:

🌿 What Makes a Good Friendship?

Trust – Feeling safe to share your thoughts and emotions.
Mutual Support – Being there for each other in good times and bad.
Respect – Valuing each other's boundaries, opinions, and differences.
Shared Interests or Values – These often help friendships grow deeper.
Communication – Open, honest, and kind conversations keep friendships strong.

💡 Types of Friendships

Childhood Friends – Often rooted in shared experiences and nostalgia.
Situational Friends – Formed through work, school, or parenting groups.
Kindred Spirits – Deep connections based on shared values or faith.
Long-Distance Friends – Maintained through effort and intentionality.

🧠 Emotional & Mental Benefits

Reduces stress and anxiety
Boosts self-esteem
Encourages healthy habits
Provides a sense of belonging

✨ Faith & Friendship

Since your blog touches on faith, you might appreciate this angle:

In many spiritual traditions, friendship is seen as a reflection of divine love.
Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
Jesus modeled deep friendship through compassion, loyalty, and sacrifice.

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Today was Thursday

A man's belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth;

And with the increase of his lips shall he be filled.

21Death and life are in the power of the tongue:

And they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

Less than 2 weeks until my birthday. Should be cool & exciting...

Seth was sick the past couple days :(

It's about 7:30 pm. It's a school night for the kids.

Sun is setting. Cooling off some it seems like.

Hubby should be home soon.

Christian music is on the tv. Phil Wickham currently.

Proverbs 18

"Desire"

"Wisdom"

"Delight in understanding: that his heart may discover itself."

"Deep waters, wellspring, flowing brook"

The name of the LORD is a strong tower:

The righteous runneth into it, and is safe.

before honour is humility.

The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity;

But a wounded spirit who can bear?

The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge;

And the wise seeketh knowledge.

A man's gift maketh room for him,

And bringeth him before great men.

He that is first in his own cause seemeth just;

But his neighbour cometh and searcheth him.

The lot causeth contentions to cease,

And parteth between the mighty.